If you are a parent or teacher who is having a hard time figuring out how to make your children more motivate and seem as though you have exhausted all possible outcomes, do not worry; there is always a solution.
Here are some tips to try to get your little one going down the right track for simple things and later life possibilities.
It is important to know that children are very easy to be imprinted on from the minute that they begin to move around, environment and teaching is crucial.
Make sure that you always provide a ‘good job’ when it is deserved.
We all know that when it comes to being a adviser for children, no one is perfect and there are times when you might be busy or miss a important success.
It is a very good idea to remain repetitive when your children are going something good such as putting away their toys without being asked, getting a good star or grade in school and even something as simple as saying please and thank you.
Rewarding good behavior with a positive action such as affection, lightening the tone of your voice and reassuring them with a smile is a sure way to ensure them that they are on the right track.
Give your children the feeling of accomplishment.
When it comes to being a protector, it is easy to get in the habit of doing everything for your children, but by having them do things on their own is an amazing way to allow them to feel good about themselves.
This feeling of accomplishment or pride, will push them to do more things to gain this feeling more times throughout their life.
This feeling is what motivates us, to get a better job, go nice things for others and help people through tough situations; this same feeling can produce future productivity and goals for your children.
Never tell them that they cannot do something.
When they are misbehaving, of course, that is a time to use the word, no.
In other times when they talk to you about dreams such as college, or wanting to be a Doctor or maybe even a Time traveler; it is best to never insult their dreams or creativity.
All action starts with a thought, all thoughts are creative, creativity results in dreams and dreams become motivation.
When you tell a child that they cannot do something, they immediately begin to convince themselves that they cannot do this.
The reason this happens is because a child looks to an adult as a supervisor, they think that everything we say is the truth and we would never steer them in the wrong direction.
It is very vital for your child’s development to be supportive in creating a sound structure of encouragement when you are aiming for success in motivating your children.
Being a guardian is never an easy task, if you feel like you have reached the end of the rope, do not give up.
There are online parental forms that can offer advice and just give you a place to vent, you should never take your frustrations out on any child, they do not understand why you are upset.
The best way to ensure that any idea or characteristic remains present throughout a child’s life is by constantly repeating the lesson or encouraging the behavior on a daily basis.